Shilpa’s exposure -Limit to obscenity?

It was only the other day that Shilpa Shetty allowed Richard Gere to plant kisses on her in a volcanoic posture in a public show at New Delhi. The show was on Aids awareness. Difficult to understand what so much of obscenity had to do with the awareness on Aids. The way Richard Gere so amorously behaved with Shilpa on stage and the way Shilpa was receptive to his move and gestures aimed at physically lowering her down to a point after which nothing but virtual dirct sex activity remains. The great surprise that Gere, who only some time back posed himself in a saintly order joining Dalai Lama, the great Budha Monk, obviously indicating abundantlly that he is away from any lust or sex. Nothing of this kind could be believed by any one who saw him engulfing Shilpa to his body in a robustly tight grip and Shilpa fully joining him in the act. Another surprise that strikes every body is the conduct of media itself. The TV channels, or say the one that I was viewing on the material day, repeated the scene on the screen more than a dozen times suffering as they do from some thing sort of a lust to attract viewership. Freedom for love, OK but if the freedom crosses the limits this way, what else is left out. In that situation, better no body talks of obscenity as it in no manner differs from a free love and romance. Richard Gere apologising and Shilpa explaining that it was for the sake of public entertainment give a stormy feeler that what is being done in red light areas is equally for public only and only to their entertainment. 


I can help you !

Whatever be the reasons, some tension or the other is a common phenomenon for every body in the present day world.Behavioural imbalances are in the back of all problems –love, family, business or any thing. Those like  introverts by temperament prefer to keep their problem to themselves refraining from sharing it with others with the result that it only aggravates for want of sharing. Psychologically any human mind has an inherent system to get a tension alleviated the moment it is shared with others –ofcourse within a closer circle. Such a sharing further elicits a bigger relief on securing a suitable advice from wellwishers/sympathizers.Sometime back a person from
Belgium called on me. This was his 4th visit to
India in search of peace. His problem was that everytime he tried to practice ‘concentration’  to secure peace as advised to him by sages/seers, he invariably failed and instead of peace he only encountered nightmarish scenarios on sex. My advice to him was not to play an unnecessarily aggressive overdoing against such thoughts, such thoughts infact need a compromise by channelising them on those very thoughts themselves. Ignore the Gods, the Deities for the time being, concentrate on a source you otherwise love most, may be a girl friend. Once the mind is settled on a particular point, it just opens a gateway to positive thoughts making it quite easy to divert the negative to positive. I quoted to him certain stories including the one from the life of Lord Budha. I found him thrilled and could see an impression of a serene satiation on his face. On going back he wrote to me that he felt so comfortable and that he could now see peace face to face. This is one instace –the areas of tension could be so many otherwise.

I have been working on this for quite a long time and may be I could be of some help to any who undergoes a situation like this. Please feel free to contact me online –

Something beyond love !

Love is great, love is divine, love is supreme. It is something so much inbuilt in the human system that howsoever best one tries to get out of it it is just not possible. But the fact remains that it just can’t afford to remain independent of other factors in life like the source of sustentation for life. Sans life, love has no place to survive. It is in this very context that a prominent poet spoke out the reality on this with practicalities of life in mind. An extract of what he wrote reads this way –

Raahatein aur bhi hain wasl ki raahat ke siwa   – Aur bhi gham hain zamaane mein mohabbat ke siwa.

Is sex really an invincible a factor ?

Whatever best the subject you choose for talking or writing, it hardly makes an appeal on the audience. If you talk on sex you certainly get the instant receptivity.Possibly this is a phenomenon obtaining since ages or say since the time the Adam and the Eve had their first day on earth.

Only a day before I was listening to the news from ‘Aaj Tak’ who showed a coverage on ‘Awareness on Aids’. Good. Aids being a killer disease most heinous and tortuous too, there must be all out awareness inculcated in the minds of the people. I was curiously watching as to what could be the modus operendi adopted by the organisers to generate the so much wanted awareness. I couldn’t get much. What I got instead was a naked demonstration of sex gestures with a star of repute from Hollywood and the much publicised heroine of ‘Big Brother’ Shilpa Shetty -the Hollywood star aggressively planting kisses on Shilpa Shetty thrusting his body on her in quivers beastly playing with her body parts. To my stupefied amazement and possibly to amazement of thousands of viewers throughout India and abroad it was a nightmarish experience to see that the scenario was repeated more than a dozen times by the news channel. Where was the message for awareness on Aids. In what sense such a love making acrobatics on the stage in a public show was to impart an education on dreaded menace? Aaj Tak is a very important news channel, sober,sincere and always to the point but is it that to attract loose publicity or to satisfy a lust for sex inherantly obtaining in the minds of the directors/ producers themselves, they couldn’t resist the temptation of keeping the show live on the screen for nearly half an hour sidelining the other important areas of the news that might have been there. Possibly there are no takers of ethics or some semblance of a social ettiquette when it comes to sex or say when sex is there, all other human faculties stop functioning giving it a free hand to reign.


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