It’s not that you can help any body you want as much depends on the one who gets it. Like every thing in the world, help too is a factor which can’t be one sided. A senior citizen friend of mine is having different kinds of ailments like blood pressure, hypertension, diabetes, piles and even back ache. His routine is typical. He has an ivory canopy hanging by the roof top in front of his house. Most of the time he continues sitting there on a chair under the shade of the ivory canopy sort of the thing avoiding the sun and the open air. I advised him to do some walking and mild exercise. It didn’t match his taste. I told him that if he can’t do it, he could at least sit for a few minutes on the roof of his house warming himself up in the mild sun and open air, and that too didn’t work with him. His house is a big one having a large roof top but he hardly goes there to avoid climbing the stairs. I again told him that it is okay if he doesn’t have interest in these thing, he could at least do some simple yoga. There again, he failed to take any initiative. I got exhausted of giving him unwanted advices one after the other. Disappointed, I had no option but to stop chasing him unwantedly as my advices were more a harassment than any relief to him. I got reminded to myself that any help, or some help by way of an advice, is not just an action at my own level, more than that what really matters is the attitude of the person concerned at the receiving end, and this is what holds good in all the areas of life.